Sunday, February 3, 2008

The Windows

Raising children is a journey riddled with windows. Windows of opportunity. Windows that slowly close and leave a parent forever fighting for a chance at second best.

There is a window to instill a love of reading in a child;
and to teach her the 26 letters with relative ease.

There is a window for teaching a child to ride a bike without fear;
and to trust that her daddy will catch her and not let her die!

There is a window to train a child in the habit of mannerly behavior;
and to relish a simple afternoon of hospitality and fellowship.

There is a window to nurture a child's inherent desire to work;
and know the sublime satisfaction of a job well done.

There is a window for leading her thinking along the path of righteousness;
and to win her heart, that you may daily preach the Gospel to her.

And there is a window to help a young woman-in-the-making understand herself--who she is in the Kingdom; how great and terrible her power as a member of the fairer sex; who is her Brother in Christ; and what is her responsibility to him and others.

I found this scribble hanging in Fifi's closet earlier in the season when I was switching out summer clothes for winter things. Which, in South Texas, is a complete waste of time--but that's beside the point.

It is a quote made by a peer during a speech on a mission trip. Fifi read it on the girl's blog.

What does it mean? At her age and older, I certainly would not have known. It is a statement of love. And it is a statement of self-sacrifice. Sacrifice of ease. Sacrifice of comfort. And certainly a sacrifice of attention.

Wouldn't it be a lovely world if everyone dressed and adorned themselves each day with a question of Godly motivation in mind? Let it start with the Body of Christ.

15 comments:

Heather said...

This was so good...love the note, that is beautiful...

Elspeth said...

What a wonderful and wise daughter you are raising. Would that every young woman (and even those of us not so young) would take the time to examine our hearts, minds, motives, and possible consequences when getting dressed every morning. For that matter, before we do or say whatever it is we do or say.

Mama Mia said...

I just have to tell you that I love your blog! You have such a beautiful family...inside & out!

missy said...

That note in your daughters room just blessed my heart. How blessed you must feel knowing that she is already considering things like that, already watching over herself. What an awesome thing!

Dana~Are We There Yet? said...

Another wonderful post! I've been noticing those windows you spoke of, some with gratitude, some with hope, and some with shame.

About Fifi's note...my answer today (as I enter the 9th week of my 5th pregnancy -- SURPRISE!!): "Because it's stretchy!"

Have a blessed week!

Elise @A Path Made Straight said...

(Wherever did you find Fifi? I'm convinced (and not because I think it impossible that she came from you) that she was dropped down from the sky, an angel He thought would be matched perfectly with *you*. She is such a gift.)

The Body of Christ? Let it start with me.

Grafted Branch said...

To God be the glory! He is doing momentous things *in* her and beautiful things *through* her.

And yes...she *is* a gift to me.

Barb said...

Fifi is an amazing young woman. I'd keep that note forever.

Dawn said...

Absolutely beautiful post.

Jess said...

yes! let it start with us!

wonderful.

love
jess

Girl Raised in the South said...

Loved what the note said, and that God in his graciousness, left it there to encourage a mom's heart when she came across it. Maybe there is a point to switching out clothes after all, even in Texas!

Katy-Anne Binstead said...

Been reading around your blog and I like what I see so far.

Anonymous said...

Lovely written post and lovely music playing. Clair De Lune.
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Jacqueline Branco Lambert said...

What a tenderhearted and sweet post. (sigh)

Melissa said...

This is a beautiful reminder of what windows of opportunity we have in our children's lives...and to make their memories fun as well as instructive. Every moment is an investment into their lives...for positive or negative. So glad God is here to help me with that!!

I really enjoy your blog and stop by here now and again to get a bit of 'fresh air'.