
Tiany, at Less of Me, More of Him is hosting an homeschool open house! Thanks, Tiany!
A short intro about you
I'm a wife of one man for 19 years, a believer in Christ for 10, mother of three daughters aged 12, 7 and 5. We've been homeschooling since the beginning--this will be our 8th year.
Your Homeschool Day, what does it look like?
We rise, groom, and do some household chores before breakfast. Or, I can spend the balance of the morning nagging the girls to finish their chores in between this distraction and that. No thank you. You don't work, you don't eat.
The first thing we do after we fill our stomaches is fill our spirits and souls with God's Word. In the young years especially, knowledge of God, Godly wisdom and a strong sense of character are paramount. More important than math. Or science. Or even reading. We most often utilize Pictures from Proverbs curriculum with coloring books. It gives a good explanation of select verses, encourages memorization, applies a story from the Scripture (Scripture interpreting Scripture) and offers comprehension questions which we don't use as often as we do just plain narration, Charlotte Mason style. And it's very affordable.
If we're not already there, we need to move to the table now for handwriting through copywork--or dictation for my oldest. Our selections vary. Sometimes it's the passage we're memorizing that month. Other times, we'll write out a hymn we're learning, a verse a day.
Before I let them leave the table, I hope to consistently pop in the next cd lesson for this year's attempt to learn conversational Spanish through Speak in a Week. We did a class with other homeschoolers last year and it. was. a. bust. If you're not learning Spanish with phrases and some amount of increasing immersion, you're not learning Spanish. (Or whatever language for your region; I'm in San Antonio.)
After language, my oldest, 12 year old Fifi, and I tag-team the little ones: she takes 5 year old Cuddlebug for "sister-mentor time," in which she might help her learn a new workbook skill like dot-to-dot, word search or Sudoko. Meanwhile I take 7 year old Dumpling to the piano to supervise her practice and theory work. 20 minutes.
Next, Fifi gets the music room for at least an hour to practice violin (6 years @ many $ = top priority) while Dumpling previews her read-aloud book (that makes our lesson time smoother and shorter) and I sit with Cuddlebug for the next lesson in Teach Your Child To Read in 100 Easy Lessons. Then we switch and Dumpling comes to read a chapter or so on her level. Sometimes, Cuddlebug listens in too, other times she plays quietly with the kitten. Afterward, we're free to read storybooks together or practice math through games (Yatzee, Bingo, Rack-O, Blokus, etc.) or the occasional worksheet from our Math U See lesson cd.
This brings us up to "recess" time where I'll kick the kids outside for 30 minutes, scarf down my own lunch, prepare theirs, call them in and read aloud to them from (usually) an historical fiction while they eat. In the summer, we're definitely inside the house, but when the weather permits, we love to spend this hour outside on the patio. Maybe this year we'll venture out further with a picnic lunch. One step at a time, as LindaFay says.
What curriculum will you be using? Do you not use a curriculum? Do you homeschool for FREE? Tell us about it!
After lunch, I need to accomplish lesson time. The subject matter determines who should attend. Monday, I like to get Fifi's grammar and writing assignments introduced. She also knows to get started on the next vocabulary assignment. Tuesday, we'll hope get the math lesson under our belt (though Tuesday is ballet and orchestra, so it might be that we have to move this to Monday; we'll see). Wednesday we'll hit history and correlating geography hard, with reading assignments and map work on the side throughout the week. We have an excellent library system here; I can shop online and simply pick up the books when they've been pulled. It's like having a book butler! Thursday is the day I dream of making Science the priority because it has been seriously neglected until now and I'd like to start Fifi on Apologia next year. Friday will be a day for art lesson and appreciation, instruction in handicraft, literature and homemaking (which is code for we're gonna clean our house and relax with a good book).
Do you schedule your day to the minute or go with the flow with no real structure?
Last year I made a beautiful, repositionable-subject schedule map. Spent hours on it. Hung it up. And never looked at it again. I've decided that a daily to-do list, with a weekly overview will suffice. We'll get it all in as we can. And as He deems. I expect we'll be done around 2. And the rest of the afternoon will be swallowed up by doctors, dentists and other...things. Like laundry. And sewing. I do hope to start a weekly play group this year for the little ones, and a monthly book club tea for Fifi. I also hope to see a strong enough repertoire of music between the four of us to minister to nursing homes or hospitals. Maybe my voice teacher and her girls will join us? *hint, hint, Katherine*
I think I'm going to have to hit the gym in the early a.m. half of the week to fit it all in from now on. When I do go in the afternoon, Fifi will come walk the treadmill or eliptical with me; the "puppies" I'm not so worried about. They get exercise!
And it looks as if I'll have to accomplish the shopping -- ugh -- on Saturday morning. Unless Husband continues to be willing to pick up our daily bread on his way home. He's awesome that way.
Do you homeschool in a homeschool room, at the kitchen table, at a desk, in the park on the grass?
Whatever works. We try not to hunker down at the table if we don't need to be there.
Do you have any “must share” tips?
- Remember it's a marathon, not a sprint.
- Childhood is precious--let them play! Unstructured and often.
- Turn off the t.v. and the computer. Use these helps very sparingly. The use of the phrase, "I'm bored" increases in direct relation to the frequency and duration of their use.
- Use discretion; resist the temptation to teach little ones things they can't use and will only loose once they've fulfilled their duty as a trophy in your case, i.e. "My little Johnny can name all the Pharaohs in Egypt--in order." That time is better spent on teaching little Johnny to respect and protect the girls instead of chasing them with a big stick.
- Oh! And one more thing! Blog it or scrapbook it. Take pictures. Keep a record. Do something that you can put your eyes and hands on; it really helps boost confidence that you're really, truly doing it!
Do you have a question or concern? Throw that in there too!
- I'm always looking for new ideas for keeping little ones occupied during another child's lesson time.
- And how much housework is too much housework for a 12 year old? What, specifically, are your child's chores and household responsibilities?
20 comments:
Just wanted you to know that I enjoyed reading your open house...thanks for sharing! I like the *sister mentor* time...I have been planning to implement something similar this year with my crew and am looking forward to seeing how it works.
Another fun read. I love hearing about and reading about others' homeschool days. I even have a couple of books that are full of such things, which I am reading for the 10th time, at least.
I dunno about the lessons with littles as I have only the one, but I read somewhere that a 14 year old should be able to manage a home should the mother become ill. If that IS wisdom, then a 12 year old would be working toward that end. Of course in other times and cultures, she would already be doing those things.
Oh, GB, this was great! It is so nice to see how others structure their days. And I LOVE that you say it's a marathon, not a sprint. :)
Oh, and I like your idea of scrapbooking our homeschooling adventure. Or maybe I will just blog it. It's faster that way. :)
This has to be one of my favorite posts you've written! I love looking inside other people's homeschools!
This year, I need to reclaim our mornings, for sure! I love your routine and I think elements of it might work here, so I'll be stealing them, thankyouverymuch. :~D All of the children have a very real and personal grasp of "If a man will not work, neither shall he eat," so we're on our way.
We've used Math U See since the beginning. In fact, it's the only thing that we're still using from that first year of homeschooling, 10 years ago. Mr. Demme is as delightful in person as you'd think, and I'm so excited that he's agreed to be the keynote speaker at our state homeschool convention in 2009. You should come up for that. May 1-2, 2009. See you then!
TeenQueen (16 now ~ ZOINKS!), has been in a mother/daughter book club for three years. Right now we're reading Les Miserables and struggling a little. :~/ We've enjoyed many of the classics from the reading list in "A Thomas Jefferson Education," and the friendships we've made are priceless.
It seems like I've always homeschooled with a toddler or preschooler (or both!) and the School Box (toys, crayons, etc. that are only available during school hours) really does work. Tag-teaming is useful, as you've found, and I think it benefits the olders AND the youngers. My youngers always have the option of going off to engage in independent play.
About housework: in our house, when you can walk, you can work. The first "chore" is cleaning the fronts of the appliances with a spray bottle of water and a small wash cloth, and we move up from there. Our two oldest are 16 & 10, and they take care of the family's laundry (gather, sort, pre-treat, wash, dry, fold/iron and put away). They also sweep, mop, dust, alternate preparing weekday lunches for the crew and keep the kitchen clean. They do the household mending (hems, buttons). Wow! When I write it all out, I feel a little sorry for them. On average, they spend 2 hours on homemaking each day, 1.5 hours on music and 4-5 hours on academic endeavors. The rest of the time we play, serve, worship, garden, hang out and pester each other!
Thanks again for the peek inside your homeschool. I will now un-hijack your comments.
Thanks for writing all this out. I'm like Clemntine--I like eavesdropping on other's lives. :)
Reading your post and Clem's comment made me think of something. There's chores and then there's homemaking. Certainly I cannot tell you what chores a 12 year old should have as my oldest is 7, but I was thinking of course she'll have chores. But then part of the "chores" could actually be homemaking training, treated almost like lessons. She would still be helping out around the house, but in more of a "learning to do it" way and less of a "free slave labor" way. Does that make sense? I guess i'ts all in how you approach it.
Your homeschool sounds great--very balanced between school and real life.
Thank you for that summary. My eldest is almost 3 and we are prayerfully trying to make the decision on how best to educate him - homeschooling is at the top of our list right now (or mine, it may be 2nd on husband's) It's nice to see how it all works for different folks!
Housework? Okay, a 12 year old should be able to clean an entire house by themselves. I mean everything. Laundry. Dishes. Dusting. Sweeping. Scrubbing floors. Cleaning appliances and cabinets. Bathrooms.
I start mine very young, and keep adding and rotating chores. If I'm very busy, or ill, mine can all do what needs to be done. Ages 16, 14, and 12. My 8 yr old cleans her room(and them I must tell her what she missed, and she has to re-do it.),wipes down all baseboards every week. Empties the dishwasher, and does breakfast dishes. Sets the table, and clears it. She is just starting to help fold laundry. She straightens shoes, scrubs the floors, etc.
BTW, Yes, I do clean. But my children all have to help!
Thanks, Tracy! Yes, in her defense, my precious Fifi CAN do all those things and more, and desires to run this house by herself. But alas, she is 12, and there are scholarly things that need her attention in these years. My question really is a plea for how much housework is *too much* housework to assign someone so young in their studies (because they only have 24 hours in a day, too).
Thanks for being so specific with the chores, though. It helps to spell it out. Blessings...
Got the hint...sounds like a plan!
I love your "must share tips"! Thanks so much for sharing and letting us have a peek into your homeschool :)
Love,
Joy
Okay, Well, I have a 14 yr old girl so this is what her day looks like:
Rise and shower
Make bed/tidy room
eat
give the bathroom a quick once over
Swiffer floors
Start school
help old laundry/hang out clothes when mom is doing it too (many hands make light work!)
Eat/clean up from lunch
return to school
more laundry
help with dinner
straighten living room, etc.
We do the majority of our cleaning on Saturday, and a basic tidy,floors, and laundry on the other days. That keeps the housework during school days to a minimum!
I enjoyed reading your blog. Wow, you all accomplish a lot! Have a wonderful year!
My gosh, I'm tired just reading all you do in a day. Now that we have our daughter, we are struggling with our decision about what to do about her schooling when the time comes. I'm a public elementary school teacher and I see firsthand what goes on there. SCARY! So we are considering private Christian education ($$$) or going the homeschooling route. Thanks for the details. It paints a good picture for us.
Childhood is precious - let them play. Yes, my thoughts exactly! Have a great year.
Cindy
www.homeschoolblogger.com/westward
I *really* have to go through everyone's posts. I'm so glad you shared about your homeschooling days because I was wondering what you used and how you structured your day with girls of varying ages.
I wrote a post the other day (haven't posted it yet) along the lines of gasping for air. We've ordered curriculum just to help set us on course for this year. I don't know if I want to schedule everything on my own by picking and choosing material. Adam also wants to be able to "jump right in" on his days off. Then, with a new baby . . . I'm hoping this will help pull us together a bit? There are days I feel like I'm in over my head and our curriculum hasn't even arrived yet! LOL! Thank goodness Rachel is young and there's time to falter and then pick myself up again. :0) I'm always inspired by other homeschooling moms . . . can't believe I'll be joining the ranks soon.
Yes, Erna. There is time to falter and start again. Lots of time at this point.
I don't know the laws in your country/province, but if possible, and if I were you (or if I good go back and do it all again) I would GIVE MYSELF PERMISSION to do the bare-bones minimum for the next two years! Because, frankly, that's all you'll get done anyway. And you'll enjoy it more if you don't set unnecessary/unreasonable expectations for yourself.
Learning to read. Bible devotions. Practicing handwriting. Playing around with numbers (counting games, etc.). Going to the zoo. Reading lots of good stories. And that's ALL.
Oh yes, and crafting--because I don't think you help yourself. ;)
Enjoy that baby while it's little. You won't regret the time you just loved on him or her.
Thanks GB for your thoughts, I appreciate it. I figure we'll see how it all goes. The laws here don't require our little ones to be in school until age 6, which is a blessing. So, I don't feel like there are requirements that Rachel needs to reach. Yet, she has such a craving to learn and we thought we'd start now. I'll copy your response and keep it on hand. If we can fit in extras so be it but we'll focus on the basics for the most part. The curriculum we will be using has a lot of quality books, which I appreciate more than anything else. :0) Okay . . . got to get back to making lunch. :0)
I must admit that I have not had time to read this...but believe me, I intend to. I also forgot to mention above that I loved the modesty post...how did I miss that ?!
I realize now that your question was "how much time" in chores, not "how much/what kind". Sorry to have missed that in your original post. Because I'm somewhat of a nerd, I've actually given this some thought and come up with a formula.
My older girls are awake for 15 hours a day (6:30am to 9:30pm), or roughly 900 minutes. They give a little over 10% of those minutes to homemaking duties over the course of the day (usually 1.5 to 2 hours). The first 10% of their time each day, or 90 minutes (after their morning routine - rise, dress, tidy, eat), they give to the Lord in prayer, Bible study and journaling. The rest of the day happens in 90-minute-ish increments and it works out well. 90 minutes is a nice long stretch to work on a craft project, immerse yourself into a good book, play an instrument, write notes to friends and relatives, or dig for worms. It's also a time-frame with an end in sight, so that less-favored tasks don't seem so daunting.
Be blessed in your home and school this year. I find that I'm more excited about this school year than I've been in a while. Could be because we're not moving, expecting a baby, or dealing with death or illness...bring on the ordinary!!
OKAY...now that I have FINALLY had a moment to concentrate and read this...I love your schedule. I ordered the Proverbs in pictures set and the coloring book...what a great idea. AND I can use that with my 3&4 year-old class :)
"My little Johnny can name all the Pharaohs in Egypt--in order." That time is better spent on teaching little Johnny to respect and protect the girls instead of chasing them with a big stick.
...totally CRACKED up at this...we all know someone like this :) Sometimes it's ME ;)
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